We do not talk to those who leave or are put away by pastor. Ever. Under any circumstances. Uhm, most of us that is. Pastor does do deals with some parents/kids to still have contact on a restricted basis. Two major reasons. The families are integral to the machinery of Calvary Temple-land, and he needs to keep someone happy or they will flee. The insider who talks to an outsider is a pipeline of information to us about what/who is doing. Pastor then feeds us these God-given tidbits. With a pat on the head saying “see I told you – you will DIE if you leave this place. So ‘n’ so is now on a fast-track to hell.” It’s all about getting the advantage, but the overall Rule of Thumb – do not talk to those people who have left/been put out. They will entice you with their lying, kind, and sincere ways. They will take you to hell. You love them too much to help them, so give them over to God. And STAY AWAY. SHUT YOUR MOUTH. (yeah, Pastor does say that to us, often). Sad face. Sigh.
Pastor you are just using us to protect your own man-made ministry. We are not alive and well in here, nor are we dying. Yet. We are just existing. Waiting for the One Man who will call and break the chains that bind us to lies. He is coming to set us free. And He will deal with you and those who have propped you up/turned a blind eye to your beatings of His children. Repent.
But God says, “But and if that servant say in his heart, My lord delayeth his coming; and shall begin to beat the menservants and maidens, and to eat and drink, and to be drunken; The lord of that servant will come in a day when he looketh not for him, and at an hour when he is not aware, and will cut him in sunder, and will appoint him his portion with the unbelievers” (Luke 12:45-46). “I know thy works, and thy labour, and thy patience, and how thou canst not bear them which are evil:and thou hast tried them which say they are apostles, and are not, and hast found them liars” (Revelation 2:2). “But I have a few things against thee, because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumblingblock before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication. So hast thou also them that hold the doctrine of the Nicolaitans, which thing I hate. Repent; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will fight against them with the sword of my mouth” (Revelation 2:14-16). “And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works” (Revelation 2:21-23).